From an ask that Lani answered:
“169: Do you believe in love at first sight: I don’t think you can truly fall in love with someone, their entire self, at first sight. There’s too much you can’t know, not really, and saying love at first sight skips the entire process of loving someone. However- when I saw Kitty for the first time, she was one person in a mass of people. I saw her, and something happened. I felt something, a pull, a knowing. I fell a little bit in love with her the second I saw her, and I’m still falling.
TL;DR: I’m a cynical romanic.
(Also that’s all entirely about me. I don’t feel the need to judge anyone else for their love at first sight, I am good friends with someone who knew her soulmate the moment she met him, and I believe her completely. You can tell from her eyes that it’s real. It’s not my place to define what can and can’t happen to anyone else and I have no desire to do that.)”
I am constantly amazed at my fortune in this life, but never more than when I think about my relationship with Lani.